I usually have my iPod plugged into my iMac so it can charge.
Every time the computer is turned on, or comes out of sleep the ipod icon is mounted on the desktop, and the actual iPod's backlight stays on.
I have to manually drag it to the eject button every time to get it un-mounted and turn the iPod's backlight off.
These are the settings I have for it in iTunes:
Every time the computer is turned on, or comes out of sleep the ipod icon is mounted on the desktop, and the actual iPod's backlight stays on.
I have to manually drag it to the eject button every time to get it un-mounted and turn the iPod's backlight off.

These are the settings I have for it in iTunes:
