hi everyone. so i have officially been a mac owner for one day
i have a brand new white macbook (2ghz, 160gb hd, 2gb ram, running leopard), and while it is adorable and somewhat self explanatory i find myself a little confused by a couple random things. i've scoured forums, guides, and such and while the answers there have helped me muddle through some processes i don't think i'm understanding the whole picture. 
so issue 1- downloading stuff?
i heard the downloading process is way different from windows so i downloaded a free solitaire game or something like that just to practice. it put a thing on my desktop under the harddrive icon. i doubled clicked it, it asked me some questions, and i dragged it to my applications folder and in my dock. however, i must have missed a step because whenever i restart my computer, the solitaire icon in the dock turns into a gray question mark. the file is still under applications, but when i click on that it prompts me to install or run the disk image thing again. after i do that the game works fine, but i dont think i should have to go through that every time i restart?
issue 2- gmail and mac mail?
i opened the stamp icon from my dock and it asked me my email address. i put in my gmail account info and it proceeded to take like 2 hours to import my thousands of messages saved in my gmail account. whatever. so when all was said and done, i went through and deleted or stored the misc emails. when i get a new email, the stamp thing shows me, however if i read it or delete it or anything, it doesn't register in my gmail account. so if i get a new email i have to delete it from my mac mail thingy, and then go to the gmail website and delete it there. is there a way to get them to link or something so if i only check one, the action will affect the other?
issue 3- quitting/closing stuff?
so i also heard that a big mistake new mac users make is thinking they've quit a program but it's really still running. i used ichat yesterday and to close it i hit the red x button. does that close it or am i still floating around in the instant messenger somewhere? haha. and vice versa, is there a way to close or hide the buddy list thing but stay online/away and just be notified if someone ims you?
so those 3 questions should make me good to go for awhile. i really appreciate any help, and i hope i didn't insult any seasoned mac users by my insanely novice questions
so issue 1- downloading stuff?
i heard the downloading process is way different from windows so i downloaded a free solitaire game or something like that just to practice. it put a thing on my desktop under the harddrive icon. i doubled clicked it, it asked me some questions, and i dragged it to my applications folder and in my dock. however, i must have missed a step because whenever i restart my computer, the solitaire icon in the dock turns into a gray question mark. the file is still under applications, but when i click on that it prompts me to install or run the disk image thing again. after i do that the game works fine, but i dont think i should have to go through that every time i restart?
issue 2- gmail and mac mail?
i opened the stamp icon from my dock and it asked me my email address. i put in my gmail account info and it proceeded to take like 2 hours to import my thousands of messages saved in my gmail account. whatever. so when all was said and done, i went through and deleted or stored the misc emails. when i get a new email, the stamp thing shows me, however if i read it or delete it or anything, it doesn't register in my gmail account. so if i get a new email i have to delete it from my mac mail thingy, and then go to the gmail website and delete it there. is there a way to get them to link or something so if i only check one, the action will affect the other?
issue 3- quitting/closing stuff?
so i also heard that a big mistake new mac users make is thinking they've quit a program but it's really still running. i used ichat yesterday and to close it i hit the red x button. does that close it or am i still floating around in the instant messenger somewhere? haha. and vice versa, is there a way to close or hide the buddy list thing but stay online/away and just be notified if someone ims you?
so those 3 questions should make me good to go for awhile. i really appreciate any help, and i hope i didn't insult any seasoned mac users by my insanely novice questions