I ordered mine at 4AM est, I'm not worried it's a phone and it'll get here. My Mac Mini shipped from China and was at my door in three days so there is still lots of time for it to still get here by the 14th.
Thinking people are getting nervous because of the "AT&T cancelled my iPhone 4S order" threads. Sounds like a majority of people were in the "Preparing for shipment" status when their order were cancelled for really no reason other than AT&T not liking their last name or their genealogy.