I think everyone's advice is going to have to be a for-next-time thing... we had an amazing time on the island, though.
This is what we did:
Friday -- Sarah arrived super late. She was supposed to get there at about 3PM, and left on time, and hit mad traffic. She arrived at 7. I left an hour + late (would also have arrived at 3PM), hit no traffic, stopped for outlet shopping, and still got there by about 4:30.

On the other hand, in addition to an amazing linen Ralph Lauren hoodie I got myself, I found Sarah a pair of patent leather red ballerina slippers at Guess. She had wanted slippers like that for some time, but every time we went looking, we found ones that were not quite right. These were perfect!!! But after Sarah got in, I got her unpacked, we went to the beach to see the sunset, and then went to Ruan Thai (out on Bus 278 by the mall), which was really, really nice. Excellent Thai, nice atmosphere (red lighting), very friendly and attentive, and $35 for two adults and a three-year-old. Drunken noodles...mmm....

We came back and had Riesling in the hotel room to end the evening.
Saturday -- we took Sarah's daughter to a story reading at Barnes & Nobles with real live ballerinas, and then to the Sandbox interactive museum, where we stayed past lunchtime. We got her some quick McDonalds (so it could be a vacation for her too!

). Then we went and explored the mall and I took Sarah for tanning, because the beach was mostly too cold to lay out on. It had been perfect on Friday, but she got there too late. So I really wanted to make her glow a little bit, so we found a tanning salon. Then Sarah took me back to the hotel to give me a massage. And I glowed.

Later in the day we got low-key Mexican for dinner and explored the island some more.
Sunday -- we slept in and then did a little more island exploring. We got greek salad, turkey / brie / apple wraps, chocolate flavored soda, and a fudge / pecan / caramel torte at Fresh Market and had a beach picnic.

And Sarah's daughter got down on the ground and had a tantrum when she found out she had to go home.

I came pretty close to a tantrum myself.
The hotel we stayed at was ok... nothing special. I'm not sure I'd recommend it. Very basic, small rooms, but they were clean. Very, very nice staff. Good parking and location, and not expensive. However, we did have a three-year-old with us, and the people staying downstairs from us called the staff and complained about noise every single night....

On the second night they made the staff call us about the noise at 8:30 in the evening, because she was walking around the room. I think that's a little over the top.
But all in all, it was an outstanding getaway. Sarah told me on Sunday that she hadn't worried all weekend and it surprised her. Mission accomplished.

Plus we kissed whenever we hit a stoplight or stop sign.
Pictures on the camera coming up sometime soon.
