I had a White iPad 2, White iPhone 4 and White iPod touch. This time around I have a Black iPhone 5, Black iPod nano and will continue with a Black iPad mini.
Most likely sticking to my 3 for now but will buy a mini eventually, either next generation mini or a refurb later on. I would get a 64 gb black, wifi cellular model.
I would have liked a Mini with retina display, and a 5X processor at the least, but since it will not, my pick is the iPad 4. Or hold off and see if the Mini is updated mid next year at the latest. I'll flip a coin in a week or so.