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Might be time to try an Archive and Install.

Yikes I have almost filled my 200gig HD though.

besides I would rather fix the problem rather than let the uninstall/reinstall ban hammer take care of things
 
I have found that if I open up system preferences and alter the appearance settings between blue and graphite that the problems goes away

Apparently the highlighting is the important thing
 
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