i'm surprised to see so many people agree with me. when children come into play, our emotions take over, and often we lose sight of logic. I must also say that I am against the use of GPS or "black box" devices in teens' cars, because, at least with my parents, there was an inherent trust until I broke it somehow (and then I wouldn't have had a car, period). Also, I am against webcams in schools. Parents are more and more attached to their children, in ways that they never have been, and I don't think it's emotionally healthy for the parents *or* the children. Childhood and teenhood are times for the individual to learn to be more independent... Both GPS and webcams take that away. For the past centuries or decades, school has been a time of separation between parents and children, and cars have meant more independence for teenagers... It's a system that worked well. Now, parents want to be involved in too much, for too long.
The funniest thing is, I keep hearing (in articles, books, TV) about how distraught parents are to find that their adult children refuse to leave their house. Kids now live with their parents well into their '20s as a matter of regularity. Parents don't like it. Well, parents, perhaps if you would have let the kids have some independence, they would have the knowledge and experience necessary to leave the house at 18. You can't tell a kid what to do and think up until his 18th birthday, denying him trust, then expect him to go find a job, house, spouse, a life... it doesn't work that way.
My parents were obviously very liberal with me-- They did not read my mail, or censor my TV or reading, or forbid me to hang out with friends, or even (past a certain age) forbid me to make personal decisions about my body (such as piercing, drinking, etc). They did their best to teach me self-respect and responsibility, and when they felt it was appropriate, gave me leave to use those two abilities. As a side effect, I have one of the most open, comfortable, and honest relationships with my mother than anyone I know. The reason is simple: she never forced me to hide things from her, or fear her rejection.
paul