Totally agree. I finally got my hands on the new iPad this past weekend and I did not notice a heat issue. Further,
Wired Also Tests Heat of New iPad, Finds It Middle of Tablet Road
http://9to5mac.com/2012/03/26/wired-also-tests-heat-of-new-ipad-finds-it-middle-of-tablet-road/
"The third-generation iPad reached just 94 degrees Fahrenheit in its hottest rear chassis location (slightly below, and to the right of, the Apple logo when the tablet is held in portrait mode). Ninety-four degrees is not an uncomfortable temperature in ones hands, and its also well short of the alarming 116 degrees publicized by Consumer Reports,"
hehe yep. you can't blame CR, they wanted their hits and they got it (and roped in a few people into screaming the world is ending too!) but it was pretty obvious from the get go that this was a non-issue to everyone but the haters
I still contend that the not charging thing is an issue, that Apple should try to fix if possible, but the heat thing was laughable from the start!