To all the Windows users who can't get over the red dot not quitting the app:
STOP USING YOUR MOUSE FOR EVERYTHING. You will be FAR FAR more productive if you use a Mac the way it was intended to be used - one hand on the keyboard, one hand on the mouse. When you want to quit a program, command-q. When you want to close a window but keep the program running, hit command-w. So on and so forth.
Now, go be happy already.
STOP USING YOUR MOUSE FOR EVERYTHING. You will be FAR FAR more productive if you use a Mac the way it was intended to be used - one hand on the keyboard, one hand on the mouse. When you want to quit a program, command-q. When you want to close a window but keep the program running, hit command-w. So on and so forth.
Now, go be happy already.