Okay I am new to this an do not want to hose my new Iphone. I purchased a 16gig iphone and had it unlocked, all works fine but I have yet to dock it onto my computer to sync with itunes for Calendar, Music, Photos etc. I am to affraid to until i find out what to expect ... Will itunes force me to upgrade it to 1.1.4 or is that something i can refuse or turn off for auto updates? Also do i need to know anything specific when 1st time docking it? I see a button on the front called Installer and it has a "1" next to it .. how do i tell what it wants to install or how do i get rid of the install action if i dont want it.? i was told a good site for programs was ifon.com buy the unlocker.. how do i download items to install.. Lastly, How can i tell what program they used to unlock it so i can just purchase it for future unlocks? Sorry for all the newbie questions, I appreciate all you experience users help!