Wouldn't it be sensible for Apple and/or cellphone manufacturers to release decent iSync plugins for their phones whenever new ones are released?
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Why don't companies just do it themselves, and avoid the angst and embarrassment?
The bigger issue is, "why does every phone manufacturer need to reinvent the wheel with each minor model variation?" Even if each manufacturer didn't buy into a single standard, why can't they at least use their own proprietary one across the line? That way, if you have a Samsung phone and your sync application of choice supports SamsungSyncProtocol, you're off to the races instead of fiddling around because the 8300gx works but the 8300gz doesn't (not real model numbers, I know).
I plan to seriously look at the iPhone, but it pisses me off I cant easily do stuff with my blackberry.....
Look into the solutions posted already, or try Google. As a former Blackberry user and a Mac user, I don't see where the problem lies. There are a few features that are possible only with their own Windows software, which is RIM's fault and no one else's.
I'm somewhat surprised that Apple haven't taken the line of
"If you want to sync your phone, then buy the iPhone", and stopped development of iSync.
That would be absurd. That would be like taking away support for non-Apple displays and keyboards. Apple can't kill iSync, because it's for more than just phones, and it's built with Bluetooth and USB syncing, for which there are standard profiles. They could stop developing fixes for finicky phones, but it shouldn't be up to the OS to make itself compatible with the devices. The manufacturers should make a greater effort to be compatible with Macs--the fact that Apple works to make phones compatible is bonus, not an expectation.
Spot on, the iPhone is not a business phone. All other smartphones are, though.
What makes it not a business phone? If the "install anything you want" aspect is what you're thinking, I've got news for you: most corporate phone users don't install additional software, and many are prohibited from doing so on company hardware; whatever third party software is ultimately available will probably cover all the essentials used for add-in software (IM, a few games, RSS reader, Salling Clicker). The iPhone seems to work with Exchange, and that's really the big sticking point. Text input will really be something decisive, but we just don't know yet.