Uh, what?
Wifi most definitely is a battery hog.
Hogwash.
ActiveSync works by opening a TCP connection (using HTTPS) to your Exchange Server and leaving it idle. New mail is sent as a reply to the established connection.
Blackberry BIS/BES works by opening a TCP connection (using a proprietary protocol) to RIM's NOC and leaving it idle. New mail is sent as a reply to your established connection.
Especially after a software update.
Run your iPad down to zero, it will shut down by itself. Leave it for an hour or so, then put it on the charger and charge to full. Might solve your issue.
I'm not so sure about that, I know Apple says that what is supposed to happen, but when I forget to turn off my apps I get serious less battery life.
ActiveSync works by opening a TCP connection (using HTTPS) to your Exchange Server and leaving it idle. New mail is sent as a reply to the established connection.
Sure, but that's far too simplistic a view.
The mail response can happen just as long as that connection is still open. Unfortunately, connections timeout after 5-45 minutes.
That's why ActiveSync and all other so-called mobile "push" clients (RIM excepted, with PINs and UDP) have to send a quicker-than-the-timeout heartbeat to the server to keep a connection open. If the connection stays the whole time, the heartbeat timeout is extended. If not, its delay gets smaller.
Relying on a constant heartbeat == not real push, just a long timed pull.