Norton isn't fully bug free for Leopard - I had numerous issues including it would not download the latest signatures, so I ended up killing. So issue #1 is don't use Norton on Leopard, and you'll probably hear the same from Tiger users running the latest minor version just prior to Leopard.
Issue #1 - No computer is ever 100% safe from viruses (one of many types of attacks, I'll use it in the general sense for any type of external attack) but Mac isn't owned by 98% of computer users nor does it run Active-X or Microsoft Visual Basic or a native Microsoft Internet Explorer. Those three account for the most trouble on the Internet, and Mac is virtually (but not 100%) virus free. Only two proof of concept viruses exist, and requires a user to enter their password to install, and others are phishing schemes that exploit software common to Mac and PC (QuickTime, images, Word, Adobe PDF to name a few) where a graphic or object takes you to a web site and the site asks you for your credit card or SSN.
Here's what you need to do to be safe AND please the others around you who insist you have protection on your Mac:
1) Use Firefox with the "AdBlock Plus" add-in and also enable the popup blocker functions within the Firefox setup as well
2a) Download for free ClamXav for basic protection (it extends clamav which is already running on your Mac under the hood) at
http://www.pure-mac.com/virus.html#clamxav
or...
2b) Visit the link above and optionally pay for shareware anti-virus protection with the fancy GUI's like you see in Norton, but that work properly. The prices range from cheap to downright abusive.
After doing this, explain to whoever complains that all the usual common sense behavior applies, no matter Mac or PC:
* Don't open attachments you're not sure of
* Don't submit personal information unless the web page is encrypted (SSL) meaning the web address background color turns yellow in the browser
* Don't send passwords in E-Mail
etc. etc.
BTW, others might have suggestions on freeware Mac anti-virus software and still others will take the time to explain to you to DO NOTHING, which is basically the most common answer for Mac these days. My advice is intended to please you, educate you, and also please those people you mentioned who are uneducated and require you to do something to please them.
One final comment - a few years from now, when more people own Mac's due to the iMac explosion, more hackers and black hats will find exploits and it might be wise to revisit this issue then.
-jim