I suspected something like that. I also wasn´t really motivated to upgrade my ram, as it´s difficult or expensive.
I heard that there is a perfectly encoded file doing the rounds, which is a snippet form the BBC Earth BluRay disks. Apparently this file is something like the benchmark for encoding. Does anyone have a link to this file? I could use it to determine whether it´s the encoding of the files or the hardware that´s the problem.
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