what will he be doing that will use 12 cores? MATLAB? no. CAD? no. FEA? not in undergrad. he won't be using COMSOL or something until 3rd year, and it certainly won't be for anything demanding..
having rich parents is not an excuse to be irresponsible. and let's not forget the engineering attrition rate, and there's no guarantee he'll even go to grad school or go to an engineering grad program.
Dude, seriously?
His parents are buying him a computer for school, he's not building a bomb or investing his education fund in crack. What do you care? Calling someone who wants to get a Mac Pro "irresponsible" is a little over-the-top nutty. He's not murdering baby seals by running them over with a gold-plated Hummer. His parents are buying him a computer.
As somebody pointed out, the way parents' generally work is the same as government budgets. If you don't spend $7K on a computer and buy one for $2.5K instead, it's not like your parents will present you with whatever cash is left over, to go blow on something else... It also tends to mean if you don't spend the "money for new computer for school" budget
RIGHT NOW, it's not like it's gonna magically be there a year later, when you can buy more CPU power for the same price.
Just randomly flipping through some of your posts, your advice is almost universally steering people away from purchasing Mac Pros. To paraphrase, "buy an iMac," "that's overkill!" "Get a mac mini instead!"
Granted, all these people are ostensibly asking for advice on what to purchase, so go for it. On the other hand, if nobody buys Mac Pros, then pretty soon there won't be any left for anybody to purchase, including people who do need them.
What possible difference does it make in your life, if somebody who can scrape by with a Mac Mini, buys a 12-core Mac Pro instead? It's a computer, it's not life and death. If you actually pay for it with your own money and find yourself being broke, you can always use it to render video during the winter months and it'll increase the ambient temperature in whatever room it's in by 20 degrees. It's NOT just a computer, I think people overlook the fact that it's a highly-effective portable space heater too!
To the OP: tell your dad that if the computer has dual CPUs, in needs at least one monitor for each CPU, so he should get you the 12-core with dual 27" ACDs or it won't work, you'll never graduate, you'll wind up dropping out of school and moving back into his basement and emptying out the fridge and running up his AMEX bill for another 200 years.
If you can afford to buy a Mac Pro (or somebody is gonna buy it for you), and you want one... then
GET ONE. Somebody needs to keep buying them, or pretty soon, they will no longer exist. 10 people actually, ya know,
buying a Mac Pro, sends a far more important and positive message to Apple, then 10,000 people writing heartfelt diatribes how they shouldn't discontinue machines that not enough people (including the letter writer's) are purchasing.
Get a Mac Pro! Get one for each hand!