Yeah, with what you use, 16 is plenty... none of the apps you mentioned are real memory hogs (unless you have a gazillion tabs open in chrome that is...).Usually I will have at most Chrome, mail, Spotify, sublime text, Terminal, and maybe Sketch open at one time.
I loaded everything up on my 2011 MBP with 8gb of ram and took a look at Activity Monitor. Everything was still in the green.
I tried to stop using serious memory hog applications, as much as possible, like Adobe stuff and Microsoft crap.
With the new 6 core processor and SSD drives, I’m thinking the standard 16gb of ram will be enough.
I have looked at Windows machines, but I just don’t see them as good local development machines like the Macs are. Plus having to buy all new software, relearn ****, and not throw up every time I load Windows 10.
So I’m thinking about going with the 15 MBP 2.2GHZ, 256 SSD, and 16gb of ram. I am just hoping not to get that wonderful “buyer’s remorse” feeling
Re: windows... for the sw you mentioned, pretty much everything is on subscription, so you have to pay regardless of platform, except for sublime text which is not much... The dell xps 15 is actually a pretty nice machine for not a lot of money, as are various razers... but the dealbreaker for me is as you pointed out, it's hard to "not throw up every time I load Windows 10"!
I love my 2018 mbp 15!