I doubt anyone thought that with the M1, Apple were making a forward step nobody else could catch up with. Chip design doesn't work that way, and Apple wouldn't have expected it to. All that Apple Silicon has done is produce a simple developmental progression, much the same as we've seen a dozen or so times before.
At to feedback - I'm not sure what your point is, because if you are assuming Apple don't get any, I think you're rather missed the point. They can't get feedback on products that don't exist, and I'd bet the feedback they do get from the M series processors has been widely positive. Plus, Intel? Really? At least Apple have actual customers.
Lightroom is an 8Gb minimum app, so the user in this case is setting the thing up to fail, since Lightroom doesn't relinquish RAM it doesn't need.
If it's the review I recall, there were dozens of browser tabs open, and dozens of RAM images open in Lightroom too. Plus a few other background tasks - all at the same time.
About as fair and balanced as a test as dumping a 4-door Chevy in a Formula One race, and complaining it can't keep up, particularly since nobody actually suggested that an 8Gb MBA was the right system for a Lightroom user.