I did similar upgrade to my late 2009 machine and it's been transformed (8gb). The ram upgrade was quite straightforward the hardest part was opening the box and a little fiddly with wifi antennas but online videos show all you need to know. I also changed the HDD. I would say go ahead and make the upgrade and I'll wager that after you've done it you'll be considering an SSD as you'll realise upgrading isn't a dark art. Good luck
Thanks. When I have the dough I'm gonna add 4gb (for a total of 5) and replace the HD with a WD black 750. I know 8gb would be preferable, but I'd rather upgrade the HD and have 5gb than go to 8gb and stay with the stock drive.