No, no, no. Apple actually does not do that. If they wanted to market this unit towards the HTPC market, they would actually make a proper combo touchpad/keyboard, it would be capable of playing HD soundtracks, which it is not and it would have HDMI 1.4 and blu-ray support, which it doesnt.
Yes, yes, yes. Geez, you sound like a little girl who's not getting her way.
http://www.apple.com/macmini/features.html
About half-way down the screen, buddy, right from the horse's mouth:
"Mac mini comes to the big screen.
It’s easy to connect Mac mini to the biggest screen in the house — your HDTV — courtesy of a built-in HDMI port. Plug in one HDMI cable and start enjoying content on your Mac mini in brilliant HD. Like movies and TV shows from iTunes, the Internet, and your photo library. There’s also a handy control that lets you easily adjust the output on Mac mini to fill even the biggest HDTV screen. And when you just want to listen to music, you can play your entire iTunes collection through your home entertainment center, or stream it to a set of speakers in any room via an AirPort Express Base Station."
The reason why Apple does this and doesn't provide a full keyboard with a track pad is because Apple would never do such a thing to us. Using a full keyboard and track pad is a very clunky and aesthetically awful way to control a TV (regardless who is making it). It's ergonomically an incredibly dumb idea too. Could you imagine using this while laying down on your couch? What about using it while standing? Horrible solution for a simple problem.
As for not releasing it with HDMI 1.4 or BD, same reason why ATV only puts out 720p, Apple computers still use USB 2.0, the Mini still has an Intel C2D processor, etc. Because Apple is usually slow to offer cutting edge tech in their products...because it increases their profit margin...so they can always offer an exciting update every year...because people will still buy it no matter what it has in it....because they're Apple and they could do what they damn please. Steve Jobs could defecate into the case of a Mac Mini and 1 million people would camp out to buy it.
The only point at which Apple could be seen as marketing the Mini for HTPC use would be if they ship it with a small SSD holding Apple TV's OS, dual booting with OS X, or if they ship it with the smallest iPod Touch to use as a virtual remote / keyboard to fill the gap you suggest.
But why would Apple do this? The Mac Mini is already basically an ATV plus a whole lot more. You can get all ATV's offerings through iTunes on the Mini. As for the remote, I agree, this is not exactly simple. But anyone who is willing to use a Mini for HTPC use is likely tech savvy enough to figure out how to so it. Simply, anyone who has either a iPod Touch, an iPhone, or an iPad (I would guess, about 98% of the people on this forum), there are many remote apps you can use via your iDevice. They actually work pretty well too. I use HippoRemote.