I have small wrists people. I had to take a lot of links out to get it to fit.
The so-called "stylist" that Macrumors posted about scared me when they said to lay out a credit car on your wrist. This is far shorter than a credit card. That's not a good indicator at all.
42mm looks great. The 38 would be way too small.
I have brightness at 50% and its very bright. The reflections are no big deal; just like on a monitor. They are there but you cease to notice them after a while.
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Yes! And this kick ass pouch for your extra links!
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