TMA said:
I think perhaps what's got me abit worked up is that I am a tad on the paranoid side, (I try to get help for it), and I can normally weigh up a situation and come out with a logical understanding. However with me there will come a point where I cannot help but think on the paranoid side.
This has really come from this reputation thing. My train of thought goes something like this (and i'm not suggested this is the 'right' way to thing, but i'd feel happier if someone could agree with me)...
- A lot of people with demi status (and a few non demis) are given a reputation.
So? One word: random.
- Who decided who gets a 'reputation'
Big Brother. Osama bin Laden. Doctor Q's dog. Your wife. ENIAC. It could have been anybody or anything.
- Did they decide I didn't need/deserve/warrant a reputation?
Yes- they did it just to piss you off

. They have a vendetta against you. I can see them now: "Yeah, we'll fix his ass!"
- If thats just me being paranoid, then what else could be happening?
Maybe a switch just got flipped the wrong way in the Admin CP.
- Someones just having fun.
Or not.
- Wait - it's a bit inconsiderate to play games on a community like this.
Again, it was done just to fry your bacon and ruin your week.
- There will be an explanation
There was if you read between the lines- a random sampling of members were given a reputation, they were up for roughly a week and disappeared as quickly as they appeared.
- There's not been an explanation, someone realises they're being reckless and inconsiderate and doesn't want to own up.
Two words: Script Kiddie.
- No, that's just being paranoid, what else could be happening?
Two words: Script Kiddie.
- Arns making a point that he believes a reputation system would be daft, so he sets about creating a rigged/loaded 'demonstration' that gets people worked up in to a ruckass about nothing, thus is able to use this as evidence that a reputation system would be a bad idea.
Actually, reading over this thread, it seems like everybody else, including those 'granted' reputations, are just confused. You seem to be the only one taking it as a personal attack.
- Hmm I must be right about one or all of the above, because I can't think of anything else.
Since then, i've not succeeded in communicating my point very well at all, offending and upsetting a few folks hence further pushing myself away from any chance of making friends or fitting in within any communities here that I may or may not wish to be a part of.
You may be correct in your guesses- you know as much as the rest of us, Arn, and Doctor Q probably know- I'm sure that who/whatever caused this will be revealed in due time.
As a final note, the internet and forums in particular are very dynamic and diverse places- people will have differing opinions and points of view-
Expect it and Respect it!. If somebody says/does something that you don't like, unless it is life-threatening, shrug it off! There are plenty of other discussions for you to distract yourself with.