Unless you need to upgrade storage, you may find that you are doing yourself a disservice by avoiding the Retina. I own both 15" standard and Retina MBP. The latter being the better more advanced machine. My own Retina performs exactly as advertised and i rather suspect the vast majority of owners have never had any issue.
One the things with forums in general is people mostly come to solve issue, in some case complain, and a minority just to whine about hardware they have little or no experience with, barring ten minutes hands on at "BestBuy" which is clearly the case with some posts...
Best advice i can give is go look for yourself, take time, don't hurry, read the reputable reviews, and above all else don't use a post by a kid with ten minutes hands on in Best Buy as the basis for a significant tech purchase