Well, for one thing I doubt you'll find a 1080i tv. They would be 1080p.
As for which to buy, it depends on your viewing distance and the size of the screen. In a typical living room, you sit about 15-20 feet away from the screen. At that distance, if you get a 60" or bigger, then go ahead and get 1080. Otherwise, you won't be able to see the difference between 720 and 1080. For example, a 42" tv. Which, by the way, is way too small for that size room anyway.
At a distance of 15-20 feet, your going to want a 50" tv minimum.