Keep in mind in this forum we seem to talking about two different breeds of MBP. While the 2009 Intel Core 2 Duo and the 2010 Intel Core i5/i7 models look the same, both being unibody and all, (don't argue with me, I just built a Core i7 desktop) they are TWO radically different machines in the way they handle RAM.
I'm aware in the 2009 unibody Core 2 Duo models that they wouldn't play nice with the 1333Mhz RAM, but the Intel Core i7 chipsets use a different chipset so I'm wondering how the 2010 Intel Core i7 models would handle 8GB 1333Mhz RAM.