Try running Parallel Desktop or Dockers in 8gb RAM, then he will realize, it’s just a fake “Pro” laptop.
If you're gonna be running VMs and containers why would you even consider buying a machine with so little RAM? Isn't that like buying a subcompact car and then being put out when you can't use it to move a sofa or tow a boat or whatever?
Or maybe in this case it's more like getting annoyed at the car company for not making a pickup truck that can tow boats and haul sofas that's also as cheap as a subcompact car?
People who buy a machine with 8Gb of RAM can do lots of basic stuff on it just fine. As an example: my workflow is text-based. Lots of tedious editing, scrolling, jumping around in documents. I'm prone to motion sickness, so having a crisp display with a higher refresh rate is super useful to me. That's actually understating it: it can be the difference between whether I'm able to work at all or not.
I use a 4K/144hz external display with a low response time when I know I'm gonna be staring at the screen for hours, but if I ever
do need to work for an extended period on the laptop display I know I will eventually get queasy. I get way less queasy way less quickly on my 14" M1 Pro than on my 2018 15" Pro. It's night and day.
Suggesting that every "pro" workflow is RAM-heavy is just silly. Mine is a "pro" workflow in the sense that I use it to do my work as a professional. But I really don't need a ton of RAM to open a few Word docs and a handful of reference web pages.
I
do greatly benefit from the ProMotion screens, though. I said for the longest time (before the 120hz M1 Pros came out but after the 15" Air was rumored) that my perfect machine would be a big-screened Air with a ProMotion display. Sadly, Apple has decided that I can only get the speedy display by purchasing a machine that is comically overpowered for my needs. Seen in that light, the 14" M3 base model is
almost exactly what I was looking for since I don't need tons of compute, RAM, or even storage, but I
do need the best screen I can get.
All that said, given the super low cost of RAM and SSDs right now, 8Gb on a $1600 machine still seems offensively stingy and I can't really think of any reason it makes sense outside of protecting Apple's high holy profit margin. If they had just gone with 16/512 as the base I'd honestly have no complaints. As it is, we don't come to Apple devices expecting them to be bargains and the cost to jump from 8 to 16 amortized over the life of the machine really isn't enough to quibble over in the grand scheme of things.