does anyone know why my adium wont sent files.....it takes so long to "connect" that i just end up stoping. AIM does it fine but i love Adium so much that i want to avoid using aim. Unless theres a way to get tabs in aim.
I feel the same way adium is so much more nicer than the official client but developement is still at an early stage especially for advanced features such as file transfer and direct connections, it will get better over time, we'll just have to wait it out for now. You can always use the official client or ichat (better) for those features for now