I too have the same problem. It started a month ago when I started using hearing aids, that are Made for iPhone, iPad and iPod touch, which allow for direct audio streaming, including hands-free phone calls. Before hearing aids the volume and ringer were set to max volume. I adjusted the ringer volume so it wouldn’t blast in my ear. I don’t sleep with them on, so I can’t hear my alarm in the morning. Changing the settings daily is a major inconvenience!