I can't say that I am an Apple hater, more like Apple "disliker" but I am also open minded enough to admit that Apple has great products. Maybe they just cater to a different crowd than me.
All statements are IMO. Opinions are like *******s, everyone has one, and they stink.
MacBook - I will NEVER get one for myself. To me, it's completely unusable. Very counter-intuitive, and awkward to use. No decent file management won't let me do much work. Lack of ActiveX is another huge hit for me, since some of my work requires it. I do need to do some work on OSX once in a while, for that I have VMWare image of OSX, which I use maybe once a month for 10 minutes, and that's it. IMO, Apple needs to put a lot of work into OSX before, it will be usable for me. Girlfriend, however, enjoys her little Flash games, and Facebook. I do not have to worry about antivirus licensing for additional PC.
iPhone - Also, I find it very unusable. After owning WinMo, Android and using iPhone extensively, for me it's clear that I will never own one. Do not get me wrong, I like the design, the specs, but iOS as a Phone OS, to me is severely limited. To me, widgets are very important. One glance of the screen, I can see who texted me, what just came into my inbox and if it's important or not, and notifications do not stop what I am doing. Since everything I listed above is a software limitation, maybe in future, Apple will correct it and I will give it a shot.
iPad - I own one. While iOS has it's shortcomings, I believe for next year, iPad will be dominant tablet. Being an Android fan, to me Honeycomb was an obvious choice, but I thought that it needs to mature. Even original Android (on HTC Dream / TMobile G1) was BAD compared to iOS originally. But it matured and IMO kicking iOS's butt. It may or may not happen in tablet world, but as of right now, a more established OS will work better for myself.
I think the key in making good purchasing decisions is not to be brand-loyal. Evaluate the product, not the manufacturer. A lot of Apple fanboys will buy a boxed turd if it has an Apple logo on it. But staying away from that mentality will make you a better consumer and will let you enjoy your purchase much more.
TL;DR version - I think OSX sucks, iPhone sucks, iPad is great, and stop looking at the brand. Look at the product instead. All statements were my opinions only. I am entitled to those and you are entitled to criticize them.