I'm a dope as well. :
I MUCH prefer the GS3 and is by far my main phone now, but there are a couple of things the GS3 can't do, like anything that needs low real time audio latency (guitar amp simulators, etc). Plus, I own movies / TV shows that are Apple DRM specific that can only play on an iOS device.
Jelly Bean is solving the Android audio latency issue and I'll eventually convert over to non-Apple TV shows and movies, so I don't suspect I'll be using the 4S or any Apple device for much longer unless they completely wow me with the iPhone 5, which is not going to happen with a 4" screen and no microSD.
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Yes, but the HUGE issue with the Nexus is only 16GB internal and no expandable microSD memory. Total deal breaker for me.