As a work around, perhaps run macOS X inside a virtual machine that in turn runs on Windows then "share" the drive and mount it on Windows. The mac drive will be a network share.
Another solution requires hardware. Get a USB drive and keep it sync'd using rsync. The USB drive could have an NTFS on it. Then mount this on windows. data sync after each reboot. (Yes, this is about as ugly as the first method)
A little nicer solution. Move the data you ned to share off of the APFS drive to something both Windows and MacOS an see. I doubt yo really need to share the entire APFS volume. This, I think, is the least ugly solution.