From my own experience :
When I used to listen to music I had little to no interest in lyrics. I could really like a song but when I later on read the lyrics I didn’t think much of them or at worst didn’t like them at all. Lyrics were just part of the music.
Then I started listening to classical music (the “hits” first), and I tried to understand what it was all about.
So lyrics started to play a bigger role especially when listening to and later on going to opera. After a few years of preparing every opera (examining the lyrics to hook the notes to meaning) I was struggling with a Russian opera and letting it all go, I discovered that not preparing anything and just listening and letting the notes, instruments (including voices) work on their own, I started feeling in stead of understanding music.
So maybe for me I needed the stages I went through for me to truly enjoy music as I do now. I can now enjoy all genres of music of all cultures without prejudice or trying to understand it.
So you might have to take another route but I hope you achieve the music walhalla I am in