Apple music syncing issues are going to drive me into insanity

[theLemur]

I have apple music playlists accessible from my iphone under the music app, but it's hard to reorganize songs from the phone to better curate my playlists, so you'd think I'd be able to open iTunes and do it, but 90% of my songs are greyed out and inaccessible from iTunes. Additionally I can go into iTunes and I can view the playlists under the phone (when it's connected to the MacBook) and the playlists are completely different, missing songs and such, so I actually have three different sets of the same playlists, none of them matching each other. I feel like I've tried every way possible to get them to sync, and I just can't take it anymore... What on earth am I doing wrong?

 

[StayPuft]

This is the reason I stopped using Apple Music.

 

[M. Gustave]

A screenshot and one specific example would be very helpful, if you want an answer.

 

[theLemur]

Sorry I just realized there were replies, the site didn't send me an email until today grrrr.. ill plug my phone in and take a screenshot