Well good for you! And since it wasn't terrible for you, it must be fine for everyone else, right? Wrong. Whenever I see "Update and Shutdown" there is no "Shutdown" option.
I'm sorry that you don't like the fact that Windows sucks, but it does, and I'm sure you don't like the fact that IT departments have poor reputations, but they do, because they've earned them. Partly by forcing Windows on everyone.
It's the weekend, so I can't tell what version of Windows is on a laptop I left at work, but that's not really relevant. The year is 2019, not 1999. This problem should not occur on any version of Windows sold in the last 20 years.
I'ts 100% relevant as these are fixes implemented in the OS to address complaints that you are making.
These fixes have been in place for 2+ years.
So if you are still experiencing issues where you are not presented with those menu options on update, than it is likely your laptop is severely out of date. If this is the case, You need to be yelling at IT and asking why. you wouldn't run MacOS 2+ years out of date ina production environment. you wouldn't run Linux 2+ years out of date in a production environment.
the fact that you say it still keeps forcing you to update on regular reboots does NOT ADD UP. it shows a gross disconnect between reality.
I'm not tryin gto sway your mind on windows sucking or not. Everyone tends to get comfortable with a certain workflow and usage. they like where things are, and change is frustrating. I'ts one thing to say "i'm not a fan of windows because of these things", and it's another thing to say "windows sucks because" <Insert lie>
So unfortunately, you either have a gross, inconsistent issue with your computers management that has prevented your computer from being updated to latest versions, or you're lying about why you think windows sucks to assuage your own opinion.
I may not convince you otherwise. But the least we can do is let the rest of the board know that what you are saying is full of crap.
there are plenty of reasons to not like certain choices in windows. I hate the new settings. Control panel is far greater than the dumbed down inconsistent mess of "Settings". the additional clicks and lack of details in settings in compared to control panel makes for far more clicks than necessary to make administrative changes.
taking so long to fix certain update delivery mechanisism is a pain. from the admin side, constant documentation that doesn't match the windows/features is a massive microsoft problem. Having software that can't install because you installed other software is also a massive problem (can't use ISO installer for Visio if you use Office365... because reasons)
but simple fact that if you're sole basis of hating windows is the update experience you are claiming, which hasn't been true for 2+ years. There's something else going on.
but now I've said my piece, I know you're still going to double down. So have a nice life