Sorry I cant understand your question? Are you saying Apple cannot do anything without Nikon giving them the SDK? Is that what you are saying? Read what my post says.. The SDK is already out there hence why Adobe has the D800 already sorted in Lightroom4. This begs the question of why if Adobe has it why doesn't Apple, or If Apple has it why hasn't it been released for Aperture.
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Go play with your toys little boy.
That's exactly my question. Reading your post again, as you asked, your statement was, "If Apple were serious about having Aperture as its ''Flagship'' photo software then they wouldn't wait for Nikon to send them the SDK."
I'm wondering how they could develop RAW support for a Camera with out waiting for the SDK, or the production model camera to reverse engineer the RAW data.
I can't speculate as to whether or not they have the SDK already. They very well may. I also can't deny that Adobe doesn't have more vested interest in photography software since it's their core business. Non-OS based software is not Apple's core business.
Apple makes some pretty amazing software as far as I'm concerned. I enjoy using Aperture, but the price sometimes is having to wait a while for RAW support when a new camera is released. I had to wait about three months for Aperture to support my D300. It was a pain in the ass. I don't think that it will take Apple three months this time to support the D800. RAW support for the D4 came about a month after it was supposed to be released. I've been training Aperture for five years and have been through many issues with customer upgrades to new gear not being immediately available in Aperture. It's nothing new.
The down side of Lightroom is that, as far as I'm aware, you have to upgrade to Lightroom 4 to get D800 support. Because Apple's RAW support is system wide, instead of a specific application, It will generally work with previous versions of Aperture, iPhoto, Preview etc, with out having to upgrade. Thats not always the case, but for the most part it's true. Lightroom, from what I've been told, is great software. In the end you pick which tool works best for you and understand the limitations and risks of each.