How do you do it manually? I wasn't aware it was something they updated at all??I think there has to be a better way to see if the remote has to be updated. It is easy to check if the tv os has to be updated but all you can do for the remote is to check the firmware version. It doesn't tell you if it needs to be updated. Currently the only way is to install it manually. If it is a higher firmware number after installing then it had to be updated. If it is the same number then it didn't need updating. But you will only know after installing it.
Surely apple could have some better way of saying if the remote firmware needs updating - just like it tells you if the tv os needs updating.