I'm always amazed how many people refer to Siri as "she".
Siri is not a "she" (or "he") but an "it". At least in English, gendered pronouns should be reserved for referencing actual humans (or animals), not algorithms wrapped up in voice recognition utilities.
I wonder how much of the frustration with Siri (or other voice assistants) stems from unreasonable expectations that result from even subconsciously thinking of it as a real, thinking AI.
I'm generally OK with Siri's functionalities, and I find it to be a great convenience is many ways. But it is still just a keyboard replacement connected to an advanced chat bot, and thus I don't expect it to succeed with arbitrary requests outside of particular syntaxes.
This illusion (admittedly pushed by marketing agents at all the big tech companies playing this market) that Siri is a kind of "plastic pal who's fun to be with" just feels ridiculous to me.
The same applies to addressing how "smart" one assistant is compared to another. It's an easy term to throw in, but it so confuses the reality that none of them are at all smart in any meaningful sense of the word. They can be degrees of "reliable," "functional," or "flexible," but none of them are "smart" or "dumb".