Apple is such a big monopoly in the music industry, they cannot even force the record companies to give Apple a license to sell DRM-free music. A monopoly is in a position to say "You do as you're told or else...". Apple is nowhere near that position.
If you follow that path then you would be saying that MS was not a monopoly.
I think you're a victim to what the definition of monopoly is. Remember it is perfectly legal to be a monopoly. It's how you wield that power is when the justice dept comes knocking. No matter though my point is more about those "companies" that come out of the woodwork when they research their patents and look for angles to go after Apple. Some may even attempt going through the government if they feel Apple is mishandling their position but that wasn't my point to begin with.