Mine, ordered 6/9 7:22AM, says this (same as you)
Ships: 1 - 3 business days
Delivers: Jun 11 - Jun 17
Mine had 4GB RAM and a 500 gig HD. Hey, at least we didn't want a solid state drive, those are taking waaay longer!
Return policy shouldn't be that big a deal. Assume you want to keep it, they have to provide warranty service anyway. Adding RAM is easy, adding a HD takes more time as you have to backup/restore data and the OS and so forth. (Yes, time machine should make it easy tho if you have a spare drive!)
Besides, replacing the HD and RAM doesn't void your warranty, and crucial.com has a free lifetime warranty on their RAM anyway and have competitive prices. (You can't get your RAM/HD serviced under Applecare if you didn't buy it from them, of course, but if you did, you can)
What if your RAM or HD fails a week after your 3-year applecare expires? buy another one for peanuts, or spring for a solid state if you want, restore backups if necessary, and you've still got a nice solid 3-year old computer. (Regardless of whether or not you would actually want to use a 3-year old computer, you can let someone else use it, sell it, or whatever.)
All around, good choice!
Thanks, I feel better. Still kind of wish I would have gone to the store though since it hasn't shipped yet! I want it RIGHT NOW!