Agreed. I'm grateful for the products he pressured his staff to produce and he clearly understood that making technology easy, accessible and fun empowers the user instead of the combative approach and attitude at Microsoft.
But it sounds like he's not someone I'd want to know or enjoy working for . Unless you were one of his few "confident" friends you were pretty much nothing to him or the company even if you produced good work. The comment that it was an honour if he even knew your name is telling and evidence of a real arrogance. Dare I say he even seems to have psychopathic traits.
I have to agree with this. He does not sound in any way shape or form like a model of good management. In fact, in many respects he's quite the opposite. This might be blasphemous to say, but he could've just been in the right place at the right time. That's not to say that he wasn't brilliant and that his vision didn't influence the company's path significantly. But, Apple in the late 90s was the perfect place for a guy with his temperament and inclinations.