The OS has changed. It's apples and oranges. Just because the Mail App ran in the background in OS 3.0 doesn't mean it works the same exact way in 4.0 with Multitasking enabled.
Just saying - a does not equal b necessarily.
Okay. Apparently, no matter what anyone says in this thread, your mind is made up and you're not going to be happy until you "prove" the point you started.
So, you're right. None of the apps every close, they continually use up memory and battery power, and you should always be really anal about closing each and every app immediately the moment you are done with them.
Happy?
I'm done.