I'm currently in the market for a new Apple laptop. I have a late 2011 15" MBP. It served me well for a couple of years, but now it runs really hot and sounds like a plane is taking off. I've heard of other 2011 models having this problem as well as the new rMBPs having display problems. And then there were all the MBPs that had the video problems.
I'm depating upgrading to either the 13" MBA or the 13" rMBP. There are definitely benefits to the retina display as well as some increased power behind the system. However, the MBP's legacy of issues is scaring me. What does everyone think? I can't afford to buy a $1500 laptop every two years.
As others have mentioned, what you see on forums usually are the ones who have problems. Apple's computers are not less reliable than similarly priced computers from other companies. What you get within any product category are specific models with a design flaw, or specific series of a specific model get a batch of faulty parts from a manufacturer (which usually results in a recall or a goodwill repair), and then you have your lemons, which are bound to happen to anyone.
The experience I have with Mac laptops is that they are at least as good, hardware-wise, as other premium laptops, with the additional benefit of running an operating system whose footprint doesn't grow with use and age, making the computer seem slow over time.