So I realized awhile back that I was never recieving MMS messages. At first this was no surprise, I dont' have a lot of friends who use them, but one day when someone asked if i'd gotten the one they sent I became suspicious. So I called AT&T.
The first time the technician "tried a few things" then transfered me to Apple, I told them not to, but they did anyway. The Apple rep apologized, they had no control over the ViewMyMessage site (I knew that), so I gave up for that day.
The second time I called the same thing happened, but when they transfered me to Apple and I explained it to the person their he called ATT back and got someone who had a clue what they were doing. After doing some digging we figured out why it wasn't working.
Basically ATT had a stupid system.
The ONLY way the system would work was if you had the specific text message plan for iPhones. If you had ANY other plan, such as a family text plan (in my case, family unlimited) this is what happened:
Someone sends me an MMS message
ATTs system recieves it, sees i'm on an iPhone
ATTs system reroutes it to ViewMyMessages
ATTs system sees that i'm not on the iPhone text plan
ATTs system gets really confused and gives up
The MMS gets lost in cyberspace and I never get a text
They hadn't bothered to consider that *GASP* some of their customers might be on family texting plan. Seriously, that seems like a pretty basic scenario to me, but apparently their quality control team didn't even bother to check it out.
*sigh*
Stupid ATT.