Either deal with it (as I do now, especially with a jailbreak when I was on a version that was jailbreakable), or find another similar phone with a version of iOS I want. Or, I move on. I like Apple products, but I'm not such a fanatic that I'm forever married to the company.
So far, I've done 2.5 years on my iPhone 5 and I like it better than the later models. I do not need to upgrade every year, especially when my stuff still works.
Buying new is not the only option. I'm typing this response on a PowerMac G4 Quicksilver which is my main computer and was made in late 2001. It's still a viable machine. If and when it breaks I buy a new logicboard.
I upgrade and I update according to my needs and my own schedule.
This is one of the things I do not like about Apple.
Understood. I'm the kind of person that likes the latest and greatest, but I have an appreciation for old software and hardware. Generally though, I prefer even older hardware to be on the latest software possible. But hey, different strokes for different folks.
I'd love to buy myself a PowerPC Mac one day, but that's another topic for another forum