Where do you live?
Wow...
But, I've had pretty good luck with UPS and FedEx. I've had one package lost through the USPS, but it was years ago.
The funniest thing was getting a package sent to Portland Oregon, TWICE, with UPS, and finding out about Sonic, their same day delivery service. Too funny... They delivered the errant package THE NEXT DAY after it turned up in Portland the second time. It's a mystery why it;s been to Portland two times more than me, but it's a funny story...
I've seen plane containers, and they are HUGE! I'd feel guilty if someone had to wade through a full container looking for a small package from Apple.
I guess I should stop complaining, as I've had, generally, pretty good luck.