@JohnRckr
I completely understand your frustration.
I have tried out 3 different models of Apple Watch over the years and always ended up returning them, for exactly the reasons you set out.
What does an Apple Watch actually add to my workflow/life/leisure?
During Amazon's Black Friday sales I got a very good deal on the Ultra 2 and thought oh well. Let's try it out again.
Firstly it feels more like my vintage watches — much better than the black slabs of glass the other watches always seemed to be.
I like how it looks and feels. So that is at least in its favour.
But, apart from it just being a watch, I am left with the same dilemma as before.
In the gym I still strap a heart rate monitor to my chest because the Apple Watch heart rate is very laggy and pretty useless for HIT stuff. Whereas the Polar strap is bang on accurate and responsive.
Even paying with ApplePay is easier with my iPhone as I find it awkward to push up my sleeves (especially in witer) and then reach for the NFC reader that are often in awkward spots — or the readers on the London Tube are on the right hand side… The iPhone just works better.
The much vaunted double tap/pinch feature is pretty useless.
I will probably keep this one… I have until next Thursday to return it.
It just doesn't do much that my iPhone can't already deliver.
Anyway, I have no answer for you, apart from, yeah, I know exactly what you mean. 🙂
Edit:
Just to add, the battery life is amazing compared to the other Apple Watches.
I charge it every 3 days or so.