I know that there has been a lot said about the extremely long amount of time it takes to back up the iPhone every time it is plugged into iTunes. Mine time has escalated to over 4 hours!!!!!! It must take this thing 3 1/2 hours just to back it up! What I do not understand is this: Everytime I plug the phone in and before it starts the back up a message comes up in iTunes that says something like "This iPhone contains items that is not located in your iTunes Library. Would you like to transfer these items from you phone to your itunes? If you choose NO, these items will be removed from your phone." If I hit "Do not transfer" nothing happens and it does not even continue the sync. If I hit "Transfer" it takes half a day to back up and sync. Then After it is done I can proceed to disconnect the phone and then turn around and plug it right back in and it gives me that same message again about there being items on the phone that are not in my iTunes library. EVEN AFTER I HAVE NOT EVEN DONE A THING WITH THE PHONE! Come On! Anybody else dealing with this?