*Exasperated*
The things you need to know:
1. MacBooks, MacBook Pros, and iMacs all use MOBILE TECHNOLOGY. What you see inside your MBP or MB are the same components on the iMac, just a tad smaller.
2. Apple laptops were built to never be shut down. That's one of the reasons why the Power Button on the new Unibodies are next to invisible.
3. The most wear and tear to the Hard Drive (and every other peripheral inside your Mac) comes from booting up, just as a car's engine experiences more wear and tear during engine start. Remember, during boot, everything is suddenly energized. From a cool and immobile state, everything begins warming up rapidly and starts spinning at outrageous speeds. Your logic board starts to expand and so do the discs within your hard drive due to the change in temperature. Constantly shutting down and booting up can actually cause MORE damage to technology due to the immediate temperature change. Another thing you have to remember is that launching the OS makes the Hard Drive spin at top speed since it needs to access all the data needed to launch the OS.
4. Keeping computers "on" keeps them at a stable temperature therefore reducing the expanding and contracting that happens to plastic and metal during temperature changes. If you're going to get into Reads and Writes of a Hard Drive while it's idle, I'll tell you that the total number of spins it'll make in a few nights won't even come close to the total number of spins it'll make during just 1 start-up.
5. Keeping a computer "on" keeps all important files in RAM therefore reducing strain to your HD.
6. Keeping Macs on enables the OS to run its Maintenance scripts that keep it in tip-top shape. Remember, there're DAILY, WEEKLY, and MONTHLY scripts.
Seriously, all the laptops in my signature have never been shut down (except when those Apple Software Updates are released) since I purchased them. The MacBook is now 3 years old. Count the number of updates released for Leopard since November of 2006 till now, and you'll get the number of times that MacBook has been restarted. Don't even get me started on my 4 iMacs...
My advice, keep 'em "on" and warm... You'll have faster access to your applications and files. No more waiting for boot-up.