Hello, I've been reading a lot of "The Lounge" sections on different forums and I noticed there were a lot of threads about "How to ask a girl out" or "Relationship Question". I noticed in there people said, what should they do, and a lot of answers mentioned being a real jerk. Does anyone find it weird that it works? Maybe this has been asked but I find it weird that peoples answers to how to ask someone out is "Be a jerk" or be cocky, I also wondered about when do you cross the line from confident to cocky? Maybe I have too much time on my hands because school is off haha!