Thanks for posting. Sorry you're troubled by all of this, but it will work itself out.
As a parent, I can only say your folks are probably acting this way b/c they believe they know what's best for you and/or, they truly want to help you get on your way. I realize you may not agree with it, but understand from their point of view, parenting isn't easy and we're not perfect.
The others are right however - accounting isn't counting people's money. Do you realize that Chief Financial Officers in corporations are guess what - accountants? CFOs are found all over the place - in all facets of business, government etc.. and they are well paid and can have very dynamic jobs. ie. my previous boss was the VP of Finance, under the CFO and before that, the VP worked for a major movie company.
And also, it's a very important job. My bro-in-law is a CA and he literally saves people money. Tax laws can be very complex so accts have to be very smart and knowledgeable. I know we pay for him to do our taxes every year, but I guarantee we've easily saved more than what we would have if we had used one of those tax programs out there. They can only do so much without knowing all the intricacies.
Maybe you're just unwilling to follow in your siblings' footsteps? I can't blame you for that. You want to carve out your own existence.
As for the money thing - your parents aren't far off the mark by wanting you to get a co-op program to be debt free upon graduation. That is simply smart parenting and shows how much they care about YOU b/c coming out of school with your legs up to your arse in debt, isn't fun. They are speaking from experience which comes from being older. You don't have to like it or agree with it, but that's the way it is. Trust me, a total stranger. I have nothing to gain by lying to you.
Just think of graduating and having your dollars go where you want them to go, instead of to the govt first?
If I were you, I'd stick with it for a while and see what happens. Try to have an open mind.
best of luck,
keebler
As a parent, I can only say your folks are probably acting this way b/c they believe they know what's best for you and/or, they truly want to help you get on your way. I realize you may not agree with it, but understand from their point of view, parenting isn't easy and we're not perfect.
The others are right however - accounting isn't counting people's money. Do you realize that Chief Financial Officers in corporations are guess what - accountants? CFOs are found all over the place - in all facets of business, government etc.. and they are well paid and can have very dynamic jobs. ie. my previous boss was the VP of Finance, under the CFO and before that, the VP worked for a major movie company.
And also, it's a very important job. My bro-in-law is a CA and he literally saves people money. Tax laws can be very complex so accts have to be very smart and knowledgeable. I know we pay for him to do our taxes every year, but I guarantee we've easily saved more than what we would have if we had used one of those tax programs out there. They can only do so much without knowing all the intricacies.
Maybe you're just unwilling to follow in your siblings' footsteps? I can't blame you for that. You want to carve out your own existence.
As for the money thing - your parents aren't far off the mark by wanting you to get a co-op program to be debt free upon graduation. That is simply smart parenting and shows how much they care about YOU b/c coming out of school with your legs up to your arse in debt, isn't fun. They are speaking from experience which comes from being older. You don't have to like it or agree with it, but that's the way it is. Trust me, a total stranger. I have nothing to gain by lying to you.
Just think of graduating and having your dollars go where you want them to go, instead of to the govt first?
If I were you, I'd stick with it for a while and see what happens. Try to have an open mind.
best of luck,
keebler