I'll take a crack at this, because i think it's a great question. First off. If you've got the scratch, some classes are a great way to learn basic technique. I haven't had the time (young kids), but I very much want to take a knife skills class. If you're crazy about pasta and want to make your own, a class can save you a lot of trial and error.
Failing classes, step 2. Good cooking shows. I saw someone else recommend Good Eats, which I heartily endorse. Alton Brown started a whole tenderloin phase for me. I'd never seen a tenderloin properly stripped. With beef being cheap right now, you can get a tenderloin for around $6 - $8/pound. Relatively lean and very tender (well, what do you expect?). Other suggestions. America's Test Kitchen. Often fairly standard dishes, but you pick up a lot of ideas. I have a nearly complete collection of Cook's Illustrated. Lydia Bastianich's shows are also a favorite of mine. Fast Food My Way by Jaque Pepín. José Andres show on Spanish food is wonderful! I live in the Washington, DC area and his restaurants are terrific!
Step 3. Pick a cuisine and learn about it. The first real step I made to being a good home cook came from living in northern England. It was my first introduction to Indian cooking and I loved it! Then I moved back to the U.S. So, I set about learning how to cook a decent Indian meal. Fortunately, I found a terrific cook book and cooked my way through much of it. With experience, I can sort out the good recipes from the bad. Since then, I've taken on risotto (which I adore) and sushi.
Warning. The web is not necessarily your friend. I have picked up a lot of recipes and that's fine. However, there's a lot of chaff out there. People will literally post recipes they've never bothered making. Individually, it works, but it's hit or miss. A few good cookbooks are an indispensable resource. Favorite sites of mine include Epicurious and cookingforengineers.com.
You sound like where I was about 8 years ago. It's a fun adventure and you gain a lot more control over your diet. Go for it!!!
BB
What's the best way to start learning cooking?
I can cook a few dishes but I would like to take it to the next level and start cooking 2-3 times a week instead of me cooking once a month. Does anyone have a goodeasy to follow with lots of pic's and videos.
Thanks